Friday, January 18, 2008

Suburban Royalty

Today was our first full day in Chimbote. Full isn’t even the word to describe it. It seemed like four days crammed into one. This morning Father Jack took us on a walking tour of his parish. We were greeted with dirt streets, garbage and stray dogs (covered in disease) everywhere. Jack did a great job of really entering into the community and when a volunteer who only spoke Spanish asked him “Cuanto Anos” which is ‘How old are you?,” he said, “cinco.” Ah a proud moment for a mother…my son knows the word ‘five’ in espanol.

We were followed by a couple of volunteers of the parish (who Brad thought were bodyguards) and one of the church residents, Jaime, who is mentally challenged and has a couple of other handicaps. They joke that he is a ‘ladies man” as he likes to pat all the girls and tease them. Very sweet.

We entered several projects of the church we are here to work for. 3 soup kitchens of which only 3 days are subsidized by the church – the other days people have to come up with the money themselves. 3 boys clubs in which there are members of different gangs – and effort to keep them out of trouble, in school (only a very few even get out of grade school), and to keep violence to a minimum. One shelter for battered women…a severe problem in Chimbote. A hospice for dying people which was the nicest building I’ve been in since we’ve been here. Another youth center in the works. A compound where young men come to get out of drugs and alcohol and into another trade. This compound is where animals are raised (cows, goats, guinea pigs, fish, ducks, turkeys, one sheep and a bunch of roosters and chickens), and men work in carpentry building tables, chairs and other furniture.

By this time, it was very hot and humid here in Chimbote and we were all sweaty and tired, but no more than Jack. The walking tour took its toll on Jack and he begged to “go back to the hotel”…So Uncle Gene took him to get a 7-up and a good rest.

The next portion of the tour is where I struggle to explain. It is very hard to express the severity of the poverty here if you are not here. This I know, because it has been explained to me, but I couldn’t grasp it until today.

We entered several people’s homes in which the floors are dirt. They have maybe 1-2 very small rooms. The walls and ceiling are made out of woven reeds. Their toilet is a hole in the ground. There is no sewer so they usually throw their raw sewage into the streets. Their kitchen is a cinder block with a burner in the hole that they put their one pot over to cook with.

Yet, these people are proud of what they have and greeted us all with a warm smile. The kids would follow us and ask us our names and just want to touch us. They would all run to Father Jack and say “Buenos Dias Padre!!” and greet him with a kiss and he to them.

After lunch and a short ‘siesta,’ we gathered our work gloves and proceeded to the home of people in the parish. There are two families that we will be helping. Their woven-reed walls and ceilings are caving in and so we will be helping to construct new ones. Today we spent our time ripping down the celings and walls. Seemingly easy, until you figure in the fact that Chimbote is VERY dusty. We were all COVERED in dust (see pics below). Jack got bored pretty quick and some of the neighbor kids started swarming Jack and asking him, in spanish, to play soccer with them. To my surprise, he jogged right out there and played a game he has never really played with kids who don´t speak his language. I was a proud mom. The kids begged us to take their picture and fought over who would sit next to Jack.

I have never been so proud to have a floor in my home. And a stove to cook on. And a toilet to flush toilet paper in (not allowed here in Peru). I take for granted so many things in my life and have missed the thankfulness for basic needs met. I have never ever felt like a suburban princess until today. I have too much and give too little.

Jack’s favorite things in his own words: The soccer game and practicing to play soccer.. The meeting (don’t know what this is). I liked church. Liked playing with the kids but got kinda embarrassed when the girls picked me up.




Jack and Father Jack

The house we have demolished and are rebuilding.

Jack cleaning up the house.


Jack with the boys he played soccer with.

This is what dirty looks like.

A couple days here...a couple days late






The lateness of our post will be made clear once I explain the past couple days. After a somewhat normal flight from Houston to Lima (I say ‘somewhat’ because we encountered some pretty severe turbulence somewhere over the Gulf of Mexico – the kind that makes me white knuckle Brad’s arm), we arrived somewhere around 11:30pm. Our luggage came out right away, but, as we were informed later, we were on “Latino Time” which basically means that we waited for another 45 minutes for everyone else’s luggage to come out as well.








We then were escorted through Customs and were greeted by HUNDREDS of people behind a rope waiting for their loved ones. Luckily, Gene was waiting there too – a good head taller than everyone – white – and with a big cowboy hat. We were lead to the bus where we waited for our one last person to arrive…that took until about 1am. THEN it took another 45 minutes to get to the Gemina Hostal where we were staying for the night. Walked in, surrendered our passports, marveled at the smell of pot lingering in the hallways J and then off to bed at around 2:30am. These were rooms with two twin beds in each, so I shared a room with Christie from Florida and Brad and Jack shared another. After waking at 5am and then for good at 8am, we left to get breakfast, walk around a bit and then on to another bus to be taken to ANOTHER bus to Chimbote. Halfway there, it became apparent that the transmission in our bus was going…and going fast. We made the last 5-10 minutes of the trip in 1st gear…but made it and cheered for our driver.

We grabbed some lunch at the bus station, checked our luggage, and boarded our bus to Chimbote. Not just ANY bus mind you…we walked into our ‘cabin’ and were greeted by plush first class type seats, pillows, blankets and a television in the front of the cabin. How glad we were since we discovered that our 4 ½ hour bus ride was really going to be 6 ½ hours.

We arrived in Chimbote at 6:30pm and were greeted by the most horrible fish smell. Chimbote is a city of about 400,000 people and Father Jack informed us that this is the “smell of money.” Mostly what is being ‘smelled’ is anchovies. Stop and imagine that. After a short ride to the church compound, we were met with a warm familiar meal of spaghetti and bread.

Jack’s Favorite things: I liked the food on the airplane. I liked the long bus ride and playing my Nintendo for so long. I liked relaxing with Dad and seeing the ocean and I liked the spaghetti when we got to Chimbote.

The whole group in Lima at 3am


Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Lima Oh Lima

Just to let everyone know...we made it!

Nothing exciting to report...well, there is...but we will have to do that later.

We arrived at the hotel at 3am last night and I woke up bright and early at 8am (sleep anyone?) Lima is on Eastern time...but still.

Very interesting city, Lima. But very cool vibe-wise...but warm climate. (sorry friends who are getting snowed on today....it is warm and humid)

We are about to board a bus for a 4 1/2 hour ride to Chimbote. Hopefully, we will be able to put some pictures up tonight...

Love to all...

Monday, January 14, 2008

Goodbye Caed & Ava!!



Tomorrow we leave on a flight to Lima, Peru.  Another country.  

We are taking Jack, but left Caedmon and Ava with Grandpa and Grandma in Wyoming today.
  
The house is TOO quiet right now...its disturbing.  

Enjoy the pictures of these little mischief-makers.















Monday, December 31, 2007

A week of injury

In one week, we have had one case of strep, one ear infection, two cases of stomach flu, one case of possible strep - but more likely a sinus infection complete with vomiting - and a week like this wouldn't be complete without two stitches in one tiny girl.

And now your next question would be - who?  what?  Jack - strep/ear infection, Brad - stomach flu, Caedmon - stomach flu/sinus infection/possible strep, Ava - two little tiny stitches. Me - NOTHING


And NOW your next question would be?  Stitches?  From what?  Well, from me.  Now before you go reporting me, let me explain.

Ava has been experiencing the joys of two - and also the sorrows of two.  And the tantrums of two.  Wild ones.  With flailing and screaming and such.  Run of the mill two-year-old stuff.  Well, our philosophy as parents is that when these tantrums rear their ugly heads, the best thing is to put them in another room and monitor the situation occasionally.  So, this past Saturday morning, Ava let it loose.  I promptly picked her up, put her in the bathroom and close the door part way.  Bathroom, you say?  Yes, bathroom.  Its right off the living room and we can keep an eye on her while still giving her her own space.  There is a step stool in there that doubles as a time out bench.  So, anyway, I hear her yelling and carrying on and something that sounded like something being thrown...so I ran over, threw open the door...into her face.  Oh the horror!!  She had launched herself off of the stepstool and lay their facedown on the tile floor.  I cried with her as I wiped the blood running down chin and called our friend, a doctor, to come over and tell me if we should get to an ER.  He came, said we should have it looked at by our pediatrician and, after an hour of crying by yours truly thinking "they" were going to take her away, arrived there with an appointment within the hour.  Two stitches was an eternity.  Listening to her cry brought tears of sorrow and guilt to my eyes as she watched me with the one good eye coming out from under the surgical paper.  That one eye felt like it was staring into my soul.  She survived and so did I.  Within the hour she was her happy go-lucky albeit two-year-old self.  

Thursday, December 27, 2007

Spreading the cheer...one foot at a time


This is so random that I'm posting this...but I must spread the good news.  

I know it seems VERY strange that I would post any other picture besides pictures of my kids, so here goes.


Although I found myself a bit "anti-gift" this year, my favorite gift that I received this Christmas, other than an exceptionally awesome panini grill, was a pair of Heartside Slippers from LL Bean.  So warm.  So cute.  So comfortable.  Good things come in threes you know...


But HOLD ON!!  As I was searching for a picture of these puppies ('hush' not needed) it looks as though they are temporarily sold out.  However, keep a watchful eye for these pillows of gladness.


MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

Saturday, December 8, 2007

Ava's Birthday

Sorry for the lateness of this post...computer issues...now that we have NEW computer and have converted to the Almighty Apple...we are much happier AND more efficient :)  

Here are pictures of a beautiful, feisty, smart, precocious and completely wonderful 2 year old.





A BLUR of action when the wrapping paper starts flying.  Cute panda a gift from Ava's "sister" Cassidy and family...
  
Cassidy and I were just showing her how...and she loved it

Beautiful face...

The girls together again....me, Ava, Cassidy and Kyndra...